System and method to determine compatibility and facilitate matching

ABSTRACT

The present invention relates to a system-implemented method of determining compatibility and facilitating matching between users of the method. More particularly, the present invention caters to users who include single individuals as well as their families and helps to ensure a match not only in physical attributes, socio-cultural and socio-economic backgrounds, and values and ideals, but also in interests, aspirations, lifestyles, personality traits, and relationship goals and, consequently, time frames for marriage. The present invention provides users with a selective, stage-based profile privacy control mechanism, allowing them to control which prospects may view which specific fields or sections of their profile and at what stage of their interactions with those prospects. Further, the present invention collects and processes not only users&#39; partner preferences but also information on the relative importance of the various indicated preferences both across possible matching criteria and within each criterion.

FIELD OF INVENTION

The present invention relates to the field of online informationexchange between users. Particularly, the present invention relates to asystem-implemented method of determining compatibility and facilitatingmatching between users of the method. More particularly, the presentinvention caters to users who include single individuals as well astheir families and helps to ensure a match not only in physicalattributes, socio-cultural and socio-economic backgrounds, and valuesand ideals, but also in interests, aspirations, lifestyles, personalitytraits, and relationship goals and, consequently, time frames formarriage. The present invention facilitates multiple means ofcommunication between users, including a structured process of secure,meaningful interactions over multiple stages, and also provides userswith a selective, stage-based profile privacy control mechanism,allowing them to control which prospects may view which specific fieldsor sections of their profile and at what stage of their interactionswith those prospects. Further, the present invention collects andprocesses not only users' partner preferences but also information onthe relative importance of the various indicated preferences—both acrosspossible matching criteria and within each criterion. Additionally, thepresent invention permits a user to indicate what charges a prospect mayhave to incur to communicate with the user, with the amount being afunction of how well the prospect matches the user's partnerpreferences. The present invention also relates to an online method ofdetermining compatibility by verifying people's identities andbackgrounds using their networks of personal and professionalrelationships.

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BACKGROUND ART

Human beings are evolutionarily wired for procreation and sociologicallywired for companionship, and matchmakers have been in existence forprobably as long as people have sought to enter into relationships. Theart of matchmaking naturally evolves and keeps up with the times, butessentially it involves helping potentially compatible people cometogether.

In the present day, there are numerous ways in which people find apartner. These include: Self-initiated offline interactions withrelatives, peers (such as classmates, colleagues, and friends),acquaintances and strangers; introductions through family, friends andacquaintances; the placing of classified ads in print media; and the useof online dating, social-networking/affinity-networking and matrimonialsites.

Of these, the Internet has made it especially easy for people to expandtheir personal networks and connect with people they would not have metotherwise. Not surprisingly, there exist numerous online dating,networking, and matrimonial sites. Many people have indeed foundsuccessful matches online. However, the existing matrimonial sitesarguably serve as little more than databases of users' personalprofiles, while networking sites—as commonly structured—are not quitesuited for determining compatibility for a serious relationship. As aresult, there is considerable dissatisfaction with the existing options.Moreover, there are also problems associated with misrepresentation ondating and matrimonial sites and authenticating a prospect's bona fidesremains a constant challenge.

What makes the process of finding a compatible match more complicatedtoday, whether online or off line, is the vast societal transformationthat has taken place in recent decades. This is especially true ofIndian society over the last generation. Young men and women in southAsia today have greater say in whom and when they marry. Yet, they mustalso contend with changing gender roles and expectations. They maycontinue to be comfortable with arranged marriages and go into one withthe best of intentions. However, it takes more than that to make amarriage work. It does not help that families today are increasinglynuclear, due to which the support system for married couples isgenerally weaker. Unfortunately, more marriages are falling apartbecause of incompatible value systems and personalities.

The present invention relates to a matchmaking site that aims to gobeyond the mere posting of bio datas or personals. It also proposes togive young men and women a better idea of who they are as individualsand what kind of person they would be truly compatible with. It alsoserves to help people develop the relationship skills necessary to makea marriage work and to help them nurture and celebrate theirrelationships for years to come. The present invention representsimprovements over the prior art in numerous novel ways, as describedbelow.

It recognizes that people at different stages in their lives and careersmay have different time frames for finding someone to marry:

-   -   Some may be ready for marriage in the near term (say, within        months of finding a match)    -   Some others may be ready for an engagement in the near term, but        prefer a courtship period of about a year between getting        engaged and tying the knot    -   Yet others may have an even longer time frame for marriage (a        couple of years or more) and want to get to know someone over        time

When all potential users are clubbed into the same category, even ifthat category is ostensibly matrimony, “search frictions” orinefficiencies, if not outright mismatches, inevitably result. These arewidespread in the prior art. There are indeed numerous online datingsites that let people list their relationship goals as being, say, oneor more of the following: activity partner; friendship;casual/short-term relationship; serious/long-term relationship; andmarriage. After all, people may be flexible about their relationshipgoals and, as the case may be, time frames for marriage. However, theuser of such a site may end up indicating a marriage time frame that isall over the map, so to speak. That is, the process of sorting andcategorizing people according to their relationship goals and timeframes is simplistic in the prior art.

It is known in the prior art, as illustrated in FIG. 1, that a user mayindicate his/her partner preferences, which go towards collatingprofiles of potential matches. In this case, a user indicates that herage preference is “27 to 32,” height preference, “5-6 to 5-11,” and soon. In the case of qualitative fields such as marital status,complexion, and religion, one may enter or select from a number ofchoices, which is also illustrated in the screenshot. However, such asimple form and process collect only partner preferences, notinformation on how important those preferences are in one's search. Somematchmaking sites do allow a user to filter out prospects who do notmeet certain criteria that are “non-negotiable,” as illustrated in FIG.2. However, such filters are by nature binary, in that they are a switchthat may only be turned on or off, depending on whether a criterion isimportant or not (e.g., US 20060015487). Such filters do not accommodatethe possibility of associating varying degrees of importance todifferent values or ranges of values within the same criterion.

There exist matchmaking sites that allow a user to indicate howimportant a criterion is in their partner preferences. It is known inthe prior art, as illustrated in FIG. 3 and FIG. 4, that some sitesallow a user to indicate the relative importance of different criteriain their partner preferences. That is, as illustrated in FIG. 3 and FIG.4, “smoking habits” may be “very important,” “drinking habits” may be“somewhat important,” “age” may be “somewhat important,” and“relationship history” may be “very important.” However, thisestablishes relative importance only in one dimension: across differentcriteria. Such systems seem to imply that there is no variation inpartner preferences within a criterion, or alternatively, they may makeassumptions or apply empirical models to address the variation ofpreferences within a criterion. For instance, in U.S. Pat. No.6,272,467, the preferences of a user are varied based upon normativedata associated with traits such as weight and height or the age of apotential match. Also it is known in the prior art that users normallypay a subscription fee for the use of a matchmaking service. Thesubscription fee is typically for unlimited use over a finite period oftime, typically ranging from a month to a year. Some systems also chargeusers fees on a pay-per-use/pay-per-contact basis. There also existrelated, job recruiting systems in which the revenue model is based onrequiring recruiters to pay a set amount to contact a candidate whoseresume appears in the database and/or on paying users a set amount tohave their resumes added to the database. However, we are not aware of amatchmaking site or related system in which the charges that a userincurs to contact another user are a function of the degree of matchbetween the users.

Moreover, in the prior art the matchmaking sites allow users to indicatesimply that they will reveal a particular piece of information “later.”The information may simply not be entered or may be password-protected.Some other systems offer profile privacy settings based on the nature ofone's relationship with potential viewers of one's profile. One instanceof relevant prior art is as shown in FIG. 5 and another is described inU.S. Pat. No. 7,725,525. However, there does not seem to exist a systemthat offers profile privacy controls that are triggered, possiblyautomatically, by the extent or stage of interactions and, consequently,the changing level of familiarity between two users.

In South Asian cultures, marriages are often not just about twoindividuals coming together, but about two families coming together. Asa result, the process of finding a match typically involves manystakeholders. The existing matchmaking sites—including U.S. Pat. No.7,085,806 and US 20060287878, which allows third-party users orintermediaries to search for prospects on behalf of a “client user” andto introduce prospects to the client—do not sufficiently recognize this.They may allow a parent, guardian, friend, sibling, or other relative tocreate a profile and communicate with potential matches on one's behalf,but activity on a profile account, especially as it relates to reviewingpotential matches, tends to be restricted to one registered user.

There also exists a need for a system-implemented method which helps toverify people's identities and backgrounds, such as by using the help ofone's network of personal and professional relationships. In the priorart, there exist matchmaking sites (including the invention described inUS 20060287878) that allow users to include testimonials and references,from trusted others, in their profiles. However, coming from strangers,these references may not be objective or credible. There also existmatchmaking sites that require or give users the option of having theircredentials verified, whether by uploading copies of documents thatvouch for one's identity, age, location, and professional qualificationsor using tools offered by some external service provider whoauthenticates, say, the user's name, age, and location. However,supporting documents may still be forged, and tools or services thatvouch for limited particulars about a prospect do not sufficientlyassure a user of a prospect's background. There are matchmakingapplications and related sites that leverage social networking sites tohelp users determine if they have friends and acquaintances in commonwith a prospect. However, such systems do not offer the kind and extentof privacy controls that a matchmaking site's user may want. While theymay help to verify people's identities and backgrounds using one'snetwork of friends and acquaintances, such systems come with thepotential risk of creating much awkwardness (should a user not “click”with a prospect who may be a friend of a friend), since matchmakingservices are slapped onto existing, well-entrenched social networks.

Various other features of the system and method of the present inventionwill become obvious to those skilled in the art upon reading thedisclosure set forth hereinafter.

OBJECT OF THE INVENTION

Thus the primary object of the present invention is directed to anonline system-implemented method of determining compatibility andfacilitating matching among users of the method.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein thesystem-implemented method of determining compatibility and facilitatingmatching caters to individuals who themselves seek to find a companionor partner and also to individuals who are being helped by others(whether a relative, friend, and/or acquaintance) in their search for acompanion or partner.

It is another object of the present invention to provide asystem-implemented method of determining compatibility and facilitatingmatching to users who come pre-screened.

It is yet another object of the present invention, wherein thesystem-implemented method caters to users who include single individualsas well as their families and helps to ensure a match not only inphysical attributes, socio-cultural and socio-economic backgrounds, andvalues and ideals, but also in interests, aspirations, lifestyles andpersonality traits.

It is an object of the present invention, wherein the method categorizesand matches users in a way that also takes into account their respectivelifestages and desired time frames for marriage.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein users' possiblelifestages include but are not limited to lifestages with the followingcorresponding relationship goals: To explore compatibility as friendsfirst; to be engaged in the near term (with a courtship period beforemarriage); to be married in the near term; and to nurture and celebraterelationships (whether one's existing family relationships or new ones).

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the method allowsusers to indicate that their time frame for marriage is flexible.

It is another object of the present invention, to provide a “primary”and any “secondary” relationship goal which are associated withlifestages that are generally close to each other in time, so that one'sindicated relationship goals, and time frame for marriage, are not “allover the map”.

It is yet another object of the present invention, wherein users arematched not only with those users who have similar time frames formarriage but also with those with whom they have potentially overlappingtime frames for marriage and, consequently, overlapping near-termrelationship goals.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein thesystem-implemented method collects information about users' partnerpreferences in a particular manner to match them with someonecompatible.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the system allowsa user to specify which select profile particulars he or she would liketo see as part of a prospect's profile summary, rather than have toscroll through and scour a prospect's entire profile information.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the systemenables the collection and display of information relating to thevariation of a user's profile characteristics (such as values, ideals,lifestyle choices, hobbies, interests, aspirations, and traits) overtime.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the systemenables a user's partner preferences to be updated automaticallyfollowing an updating of information about the user himself/herself,such that the change in partner preferences are, say, consistent with orappropriate to the change in the user's own attributes.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the systemenables a user to indicate their partner preferences not only inabsolute terms (as in indicating a preference for specific attributes)but also in relative terms—as in relative to the user's own attributesor to benchmarks derived from a population sample, such as a sample ofusers on the site or in a particular demographic or psychographicsegment.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein information on auser's partner preferences, across a number of possible matchingcriteria, is collected and processed along with information on therelative importance of the various indicated preferences.

It is yet another object of the present invention, wherein a user'spartner preferences, across a number of possible matching criteria, arecollected in a manner that captures how important each potentialcriterion is relative to another and also, within each potentialcriterion, how preferable some possible criterion values or ranges ofvalues are relative to other possible values or ranges of values.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein weights areassigned to both a potential criterion's degree of importance and thevalues or ranges of values within a criterion, to facilitate a sortingand ranking of potential matches.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user'smulti-dimensional preference index may derive either wholly fromuser-specified weights or partly from user-specified weights; empiricaldata; hypotheses on the relative importance of potential criteria andthe variation of people's partner preferences within each possiblecriterion; input from people known to the user; user behavior, includinga user's browsing history on the site; and/or user interactions history,including feedback and information on why users approved, disapproved,accepted, rejected, were interested in or uninterested in previousprospects.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the methodincorporates Boolean logic to allow people to make trade-offs in theirpartner preferences.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user's partnerpreferences are collected and processed in a way that enables thedetermination of the degree of match between the user and some otheruser of the method (and vice versa).

It is another object of the present invention, wherein how much a useris charged to communicate with a prospect is a function of the degree ofmatch between the two users. In one implementation of the invention, theamount charged is a function of how well the user matches the prospect'spartner preferences.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the amount that auser is charged to contact a prospect may be charged in any appropriateunit of real or virtual currency, with the users engaging in separatetransactions to acquire the virtual currency.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user mayspecify additional monies (in any appropriate unit of real or virtualcurrency) that a prospect would have to pay, to contact the user, if theprospect's profile characteristics place him or her outside the user'sideal range of preferences.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user mayspecify an additional premium (in any appropriate unit of real orvirtual currency) that a prospect would have to pay, to contact theuser, with this premium merely reflecting the user's selectivity infielding enquiries from prospects.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein users receivecredit, virtual currency, or points for activity and specific actionsundertaken on the site, with the credit, virtual currency, or pointsbeing redeemable towards other activity or specific actions on the site.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein if a user werenot to use or redeem, within a set period of time, any credit, virtualcurrency, or points that they have earned or accumulated, then suchcredit, virtual currency, or points would expire.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the system doesnot display or reveal a user's profile particulars, including anypersonally-identifiable information to the public at large; instead, auser's profile information is shared only with select prospects on thebasis of the degree of match between the user and potential matches.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user may revealtheir profile information to a prospect selectively, in stages, as theuser gets to know the prospect better. In one implementation of themethod, these stages consist of an intuitive set of multiple, secureinteraction stages through which two users are guided as they arematched and subsequently (should they want to) get to know each other.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user has theability to choose specifically when (that is, at what stage ofinteractions) they reveal certain profile particulars to prospects. Itis another object of the present invention, wherein the system providesa specific, selective, stage-triggered profile privacy controlmechanism, to open up specific fields or sections of the user's profileto prospects.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the profileprivacy control mechanism may be automated, adjusted, or re-adjusted bya user through the activation of appropriate profile information displaysettings, to open up specific fields or sections of the user's profileto a prospect, depending on the stage or level of interactions reachedby the user in his or her interactions with the prospect.

It is yet another object of the present invention, wherein the profileprivacy control mechanism allows for a user to request, of a prospect,the revealing of specific fields or sections of the prospect's profileand for the prospect to deliberately reveal (should they choose to)specific fields or sections of their profile to the user.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user's“responsiveness” rating is calculated as a function of how responsivethe user is to requests (including invitations to communicate) andgestures (including compliments) from prospects.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein if a user'sresponsiveness rating falls below a pre-determined threshold, the user'sability to initiate interactions with prospects may be placed on holduntil the user attends to messages previously received from prospects.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein users areprovided with the means to collate various prospects' contactinformation and pertinent particulars into a single repository ordatabase, for easy access and reference.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user mayinvolve other individuals—such as a relative, friend, or acquaintance—inhis or her search for a partner. The user and his/her “people”(MyPeople) would have the option of later changing the stage, nature,and extent of such MyPeople involvement in the search process for apartner.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the systemincludes multiple individuals and “group” logins associated with a userprofile (on the matchmaking site), with appropriateread/review/rate/communicate privileges set by the matchmaking siteuser's designated profile manager.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user may set upa “prospect ratings” sheet corresponding to his or her partnerpreferences and provide his or her MyPeople group members with theoption of submitting their opinions on or ratings of the prospects.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user's MyPeoplegroup members may have privileges that include forwarding a profile toanother user or potential user; adding searched profiles to a user'sshortlist, for his/her consideration; rating shortlisted profiles orprospects; and even initiating communications or interactions with aprospect at the site, on behalf of the user.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein a user's groupmembers may insert testimonials or provide references to the user.

It is another object of the present invention to provide an onlinemethod of determining compatibility by verifying people's identities andbackgrounds using users' networks of personal and professionalrelationships.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein thesystem-implemented method includes a matchmaking web site or system, inwhich the users enter information about themselves and their partnerpreferences, and a separate but integrated networking web site orsystem, at which the users create and expand their social graphs byconnecting online with the people in their lives.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the integrationbetween the matchmaking site and the networking site enables users ofthe matchmaking site (including individual users and their families) todo due diligence on prospective matches with the help of the networkingsite. In one implementation of the system, the due diligence may takethe form of assessing someone's personal and professional background andnetwork of relationships.

It is yet another object of the present invention, wherein two users ofthe matchmaking site may discover, using the integrated networking site,connections such as peers, friends, or acquaintances they may have incommon.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein there existsinterplay between the matchmaking site and the networking site, allowingthe matchmaking site's users to be retained and served by the networkingsite long after the completion of the matchmaking process.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the methodfacilitates meetings between two users (with or without either's familymembers being involved)

It is another object of the present invention, wherein the method alsofacilitates online interactions between users in a manner that mimicsusers' entering a room and knowing, readily, with whom they have thingsin common.

It is another object of the present invention, wherein when a user and aprospect decide to pursue a relationship and may be considered to be a“success story,” the system extracts and presents to the new coupletheir profile particulars, interaction history, and activity stream, ina manner that allows them to select excerpts for collation into analbum, digest, or multi-media exhibit that is reproducible in printand/or electronic media and serves as a souvenir to remind the coupleand their descendants of how they came together.

SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

Thus according to the basic aspect of the present invention there isprovided a system-implemented method of determining compatibility andfacilitating matching between users of the method, comprising thefollowing:

-   -   a matchmaking web site;    -   registration of users;    -   creation of a user profile by registered users;    -   enabling users to provide their partner preferences;    -   collating and processing of information, within one or more        databases, relating to user profiles and users' partner        preferences;    -   assigning of weights to users' partner preferences;    -   matching of users with other, potentially compatible users or        prospects;    -   determining degree of match between the matched users;    -   notifying users of other users with whom they may be compatible;    -   displaying users' profiles to their potential matches;    -   facilitating multiple means and multiple stages of communication        and interaction between users;    -   assigning users a responsiveness rating that is calculated based        on how responsive they are to other users on the site;    -   a user profile privacy control mechanism that enables users to        control which prospects get to view their profile particulars        and at what stage in a user's interactions with a prospect;    -   charging users a fee in real or virtual currency to permit them        to communicate or interact with other users;    -   allowing users to earn redeemable credits, virtual currencies,        or points for activities or specific actions undertaken on the        site;    -   enabling a user to involve other individuals in the search for a        partner, with appropriate user privileges set by the user's        designated profile manager;    -   enabling multiple individuals and “group” logins to be        associated with a user profile;    -   archiving the progression of users' interactions with and        potential relationship stories involving other users; and    -   a social networking web site.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the userregistration may be restricted and is either by invitation only orenabled only for credentialed users.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the verificationof a user's credentials may be achieved by means of a gateway providingaccess to verified members.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein thecategorization and matching of users is based on criteria that includethe users' respective lifestages and indicated time frames for marriage,wherein the time frames may be similar or overlapping.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the life stagesand time frames for marriage may be user-customizable.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the registeredusers may customize the profile particulars they wish to see displayedas part of a prospect's profile summary.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the systemenables the collection and display of information relating to thevariation of a user's profile characteristics over time.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the systemenables a user's partner preferences to be updated automaticallyfollowing an updating of information about the user.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the systemenables a user to indicate their partner preferences in absolute termsand/or in relative terms.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the methodincorporates Boolean logic to allow people to make trade-offs in theirpartner preferences.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the user'spartner preferences, are collected and processed in a manner thatcaptures how important a potential criterion is relative to another andalso, within a potential criterion, how preferable some possiblepreferences, values, or ranges of values are relative to other possiblepreferences, values, or ranges of values.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the weights maybe assigned default values by the system and/or may be usercustomizable.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the weights mayderive either wholly from user-specified weights or partly fromuser-specified weights; empirical data; hypotheses on the relativeimportance of potential criteria and the variation of people's partnerpreferences within each possible criterion; input from people known tothe user; user behavior, including a user's browsing history on thesite; and/or user interactions history, including feedback andinformation on why users approved, disapproved, accepted, rejected, wereinterested in or uninterested in previous prospects.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the profileprivacy control mechanism may be automated, adjusted, or re-adjusted bya user.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the profileprivacy control mechanism allows for a user to request, of a prospect,the revealing of profile particulars.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein how much a useris charged to communicate or interact with other users is a function ofthe degree of match between the two users.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein a user mayspecify additional monies, in any appropriate unit of real or virtualcurrency that a prospect would have to pay to communicate or interactwith the user.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the profiledisplay particulars includes the charges payable in real or virtualcurrency to communicate or interact with the prospect.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein if a user'sresponsiveness rating falls below a threshold, then the user's abilityto communicate or interact with prospects may be placed on hold.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the user and anyof the individuals involved in the user's search may have the option ofchanging the stage, nature, and extent of such involvement.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein a matchmakingsite user's group members may have privileges that include offeringtestimonials for inclusion in a user's profile; serving as references toa user; forwarding a profile to another user or potential user; addingsearched profiles to a user's shortlist, for his/her consideration;reading, reviewing and rating user profiles; and interacting with aprospect at the site.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein a user group'sreviews, ratings, and messages pertaining to a prospect's profile mayremain private to the group concerned and specific to that prospect'sprofile.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the methodfacilitates meetings between two users, with or without either user'sgroup members being involved, and includes exchanging of relevantinformation.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the method alsofacilitates the coming together of potentially compatible users foronline interactions that include instant messaging and near-real-timecommunications or interactions.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein users areprovided with the means to collate prospects' contact information andpertinent particulars into a repository or database.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein the system mayextract and present to a pair of users their profile particulars,interaction history, activity stream, and/or any other relevant orinteresting information.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein in thematchmaking web site the users enter profile information and indicatepartner preferences, and in the networking web site the users create andexpand their social graphs by connecting online with other people.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein a user maypopulate his or her network either directly at the networking site orfrom within the matchmaking site.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein a user may portselect information from his or her networking site profile to his or herprofile at the matchmaking site.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein a group member'sprofile at a user's matchmaking site profile may be linked to the groupmember's networking site profile.

It is another aspect of the present invention, wherein users of thematchmaking site may discover, using the networking site, connectionsthey may have in common; verify prospects' identities and backgrounds;and/or better gauge compatibility using additional potential informationgathered from the networking site.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

FIG. 1 shows a screenshot, from prior art, illustrating theentry/selection of one's partner preferences.

FIG. 2 shows another screenshot, from prior art, illustrating theactivation of partner preference filters.

FIG. 3 shows another screenshot, from prior art, illustrating theentry/selection of partner preferences.

FIG. 4 shows yet another screenshot, from prior art, illustrating theentry/selection of partner preferences.

FIG. 5 shows yet another screenshot, from prior art, illustrating someprofile privacy setting options.

FIG. 6 illustrates a lifestage map in an implementation of the presentinvention. Table 1 lists the potential sets of compatible lifestage mapsin an implementation of the present invention.

FIG. 7 shows a screenshot from the present invention, illustrating aprospect's profile summary, including a portion (“Plus more”) that theuser has customized so as to readily display fields that matter to theuser.

FIG. 8 illustrates how information is gathered, in the presentinvention, on the relative importance of different partner preferencecriteria.

FIG. 9 illustrates how information is gathered, in the presentinvention, on the varying degrees of importance of values (or ranges ofvalues) within a partner preference criterion.

FIG. 10 shows a screenshot from the present invention, illustrating thesimple implementation of partner preference weights.

FIG. 11 shows a screenshot from the present invention, illustrating theadvanced implementation of partner preference weights.

FIG. 12 shows a screenshot from the present invention, illustrating howwell a user matches a prospect's partner preferences.

FIG. 13 shows an advanced preference graph, in an implementation of thepresent invention, illustrating the degree of match, the user'sselectivity, and the message meter.

FIG. 14 shows a screenshot illustrating stage-wise interactions betweentwo users according to the present invention.

FIG. 15 illustrates how a user associates stage-specific privacysettings to profile particulars according to the present invention.

FIG. 16 shows a screenshot illustrating a user's setting up of aPeopleTree according to the present invention.

FIG. 17 shows a screenshot from the present invention, illustrating auser's designation of people who would assist him/her in the search fora partner.

FIG. 18 shows another screenshot from the present invention,illustrating a user's designation of people who would assist him/her inthe search for a partner.

FIG. 19 shows a screenshot from the present invention, illustrating howa user's MyPeople team members exchange messages with each other about apotential match.

FIG. 20 shows a screenshot from the present invention, illustrating theinitiation of a meeting between potential matches.

FIG. 21 shows another screenshot from the present invention,illustrating meeting-related user interactions.

FIG. 22 shows another screenshot from the present invention,illustrating the collecting of post-meeting user feedback.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF THE INVENTION WITH REFERENCE TO THE ACCOMPANYINGDRAWINGS

The present invention as discussed hereinbefore relates to a system andmethod of determining compatibility and facilitating matching betweenusers of the method. The system is devised in such a way that itinherently contains profiles of quality singles and user registrationmay be restricted on the basis of criteria that assure quality profiles.In one implementation of the method, user registration is either byinvitation only or enabled through the means of a gateway that may beaccessed only by credentialed users. In one implementation of thesystem, such gateways may be installed at the web sites of selectcommunities (however defined), enabling access into the system only tomembers of those communities.

The method categorizes and matches users in a way that also takes intoaccount their respective lifestages and desired time frames formarriage. The users' possible lifestages include but are not limited tolifestages with the following corresponding relationship goals: Toexplore compatibility as friends first; to be engaged in the near term(with a courtship period before marriage); to be married in the nearterm; and to nurture and celebrate relationships (whether one's existingfamily relationships or new ones). The method also allows users toindicate that their time frame for marriage is flexible, for instance byindicating the time frame in terms of: (1) The relationship goal thatthey are primarily seeking (in the near term) and (2) Whether they arealso open to being matched with someone who is primarily seeking adifferent relationship goal—provided, however, that such “primary” andany “secondary” relationship goals are associated with lifestages thatare generally close to each other in time, so that one's indicatedrelationship goals, and consequently, time frame for marriage, are not“all over the map,” so to speak. The users are matched not only withthose users who have similar time frames for marriage but also withthose with whom they have potentially overlapping time frames formarriage and, consequently, overlapping near-term relationship goals.

The foregoing object is explained hereunder in detail: Suppose that auser has indicated that he or she is primarily seeking, say, “Marriage”and is also open to being matched with a prospect who is primarilyseeking, say, “A courtship.” Suppose that another user has indicatedthat he or she is primarily seeking, say, “A courtship” and is also opento being matched with a prospect who is primarily seeking, say,“Marriage.” Then, these two users are said to have overlapping timeframes for marriage and they are tagged as being potential matches, withrespect to compatibility in time frames for marriage. The second usermay also be matched with someone whose primary and sole objective is toseek, say, “A courtship” or with another user whose primary objective isto seek “A courtship” and who is also open to, say, “exploringcompatibility as friends first.”

Sample sets of potential matches, with respect to compatibility in timeframes for marriage, for users whose near-term relationship goalincludes either marriage, courtship, or “friends first,” or straddlesany two of these three goals, are illustrated in FIG. 6 and listed inTable 1.

The system allows a user to specify which select profile particulars heor she would like to see as part of a prospect's profile summary, ratherthan have to scroll through and scour a prospect's entire profileinformation. Such a customizable summary view of a prospect's profile isillustrated in FIG. 7 (under “Plus More”). A user indicates theirpartner preferences not only in absolute terms (as in indicating apreference for specific attributes) but also in relative terms—as inrelative to the user's own attributes or to benchmarks derived from apopulation sample, such as a sample of users on the site or in aparticular demographic or psychographic segment. In one implementationof the method, the user may indicate that their age range preference isnot, say, “27 to 32 years,” but “X−1 to X+4,” where X represents theuser's own age.

The information on a user's partner preferences, across a number ofpossible matching criteria, is collected and processed along withinformation on the relative importance of the various indicatedpreferences. The partner preferences are collected in a manner thatcaptures how important each potential criterion is relative to anotherand also, within each potential criterion, how preferable some possiblecriterion values or ranges of values are relative to other possiblevalues or ranges of values. That is, a two-dimensional preference indexcaptures and comparatively ranks preferences both across possiblematching criteria and within each possible criterion, as illustrated inFIG. 8 and FIG. 9, respectively.

Weights are assigned to both a potential criterion's degree ofimportance and the values or ranges of values within a criterion, tofacilitate a sorting and ranking of potential matches. A user'smulti-dimensional preference index may derive either wholly fromuser-specified weights or partly from user-specified weights; empiricaldata; hypotheses on the relative importance of potential criteria andthe variation of people's partner preferences within each possiblecriterion; input from people known to the user; user behavior, includinga user's browsing history on the site; and/or user interactions history,including feedback and information on why users approved, disapproved,accepted, rejected, were interested in or uninterested in previousprospects.

The user is blind to the default, system-implemented weights associatedwith the relative degrees of importance of possible matching criteria(e.g., the weights associated with degrees such as “not at all,” “alittle,” “somewhat,” “a lot,” and “greatly,” as illustrated in FIG. 8)and the partner preference levels within a criterion (e.g., the weightsassociated with partner preference levels such as “ideal match,”“suitable match,” and “acceptable match,” as illustrated in FIG. 9).

In an advanced implementation of the method, the user has the option ofexplicitly specifying and adjusting the weights associated with therelative importance of possible matching criteria and also the weightsassociated with possible values or ranges of values within a criterion.The difference between the simple and advanced implementations isillustrated in a comparison of FIG. 10 (simple implementation) and FIG.11 (advanced implementation).

In another advanced implementation of the invention, the methodincorporates Boolean logic to allow people to make trade-offs in theirpartner preferences. That is, a user may value one or more partnerpreference criteria so highly or find one or more characteristics sodesirable in a prospect that the criterion or characteristic orcombinations thereof may outweigh one or more other criteria orpreferences that the prospect does not match or barely matches. Fore.g., a user may find and accordingly indicate “Telugu-speaking ANDdentist AND located in Bengaluru” to be so preferable that thecombination would make up for one or more otherwise unacceptable orbarely-acceptable traits such as, say, the prospect's age being 32 andtherefore outside the user's “ideal match” age range of “27 to 30.”

A user's partner preferences—including the multi-dimensional preferenceindex that captures and comparatively ranks preferences both acrosspossible criteria and within each possible criterion—are collected andprocessed in a way that enables the determination of the degree of matchbetween the user and some other user of the method (and vice versa). Inone implementation of the method, how well a prospect matches a user'spartner preferences is displayed as part of the prospect's profile asillustrated in FIG. 12, under “PreferenceGraph” in the right column.

In one implementation of the invention, a user may be matched with oneof three types of users: (1) another user who meets the first user'spartner preferences (to some degree), but whose own partner preferencesare not met by the first user; (2) another user whose partnerpreferences are met (to some degree) by the first user, but who does notmeet the first user's partner preferences; and (3) another user whomeets the first user's partner preferences and whose own partnerpreferences are met by the first user.

In one implementation of the invention, the amount that a user ischarged to communicate with a prospect is a function of the degree ofmatch between the two users. In another implementation of the invention,the amount charged is a function of how well the user matches theprospect's partner preferences. In such a case, the method calculatesthe total amount that the user may have to pay to contact the prospect.The total is then displayed in the form of a “message meter” (formessaging the prospect) within the prospect's profile, as illustrated inFIG. 13.

The amount that a user is charged to contact a prospect may be chargedin any appropriate unit of real or virtual currency, with the usersengaging in separate transactions to acquire the virtual currency. Inone implementation of the invention, a user may specify additionalmonies (in any appropriate unit of real or virtual currency) that aprospect would have to pay, to contact the user, if theircharacteristics place them outside the user's range of preferences(whether “ideal,” “suitable,” or “acceptable, as illustrated in FIG.11). Also, a user may specify an additional premium (in any appropriateunit of real or virtual currency) that a prospect would have to pay, tocontact the user, with this premium merely reflecting the user'sselectivity in fielding enquiries from prospects. This is alsoreflected, and illustrated, in FIG. 13.

In one implementation of the invention, users would receive credit,virtual currency, or points for activity and specific actions undertakenon the site, with the credit, virtual currency, or points beingredeemable towards other activity or specific actions on the site.

In one implementation of the method, the users may receive points for,say, every day and every week that they access the site, for everyprofile that they view, for every poll that they take, or for everycommunication or interaction that they initiate or participate in. Usersmay also receive virtual gifts in lieu of the points; use theaccumulated points to buy virtual gifts such as flowers, scrolls, icons,dolls, or greeting cards; and use the virtual gifts in theircommunications or interactions with other users or prospects, to givetheir communications additional significance through the allocation anduse of such relatively scarce, earned resources.

The system does not display or reveal a user's personally-identifiableinformation to the public at large; instead, a user's profileinformation is shared only with select prospects on the basis of thedegree of match between the user and potential matches. Also, a user mayreveal his/her profile information to a prospect selectively, in stages,as the user gets to know the prospect better. In one implementation ofthe method, these stages consist of an intuitive set of multiple, secureinteraction stages through which two users are guided as they arematched and subsequently (should they want to) get to know each other.The stages include: (a) Stage R: Review your recommended match; (b)Stage 1: Break the ice; (c) Stage 2: Learn more; (d) Stage 3: Gettalking; and (e) Stage 4: Plan meeting, as illustrated in FIG. 14. Twomatched users begin at Stage R, when they are first matched with eachother, and, depending on mutual interest, they may choose to movesequentially through the next stages of interactions and continue toexplore compatibility with each other.

The user has the ability to choose specifically when (that is, at whatstage of interactions) they reveal certain profile particulars toprospects. The profile privacy control mechanism may be automated,adjusted, or re-adjusted by a user through the activation of appropriateprofile information display settings, to open up specific fields orsections of the user's profile to a prospect, depending on the stage orlevel of interactions reached by the user in his or her interactionswith the prospect. In one implementation of the method, the userassociates stage-specific privacy settings to their profile particularsas illustrated in FIG. 15.

The profile privacy control mechanism allows for a user to request, of aprospect, the revealing of specific fields or sections of the prospect'sprofile and for the prospect to deliberately reveal (should they chooseto) specific fields or sections of their profile to the user.

A user may express to a prospect a desire to bypass the structuredinteraction stages and initiate “Quick Contact.” In one implementationof the method, such a Quick Contact message or request may take the formof requesting the prospect's e-mail address, phone number,instant-messaging handle, or even a meeting with the prospect.

A user's “responsiveness” rating is calculated as a function of howresponsive the user is to requests (including invitations tocommunicate) and gestures (including compliments) from prospects.Variables that go into the calculation of the responsiveness ratinginclude the fraction and volume of requests and gestures responded toand the time taken to respond to them.

In one implementation of the invention, when a user is contacted by aprospect, the user is presented with response options that include, “Ineed more time to respond,” besides typical response options such as “Iam interested and accept your invitation to communicate” and “I am notinterested and decline your invitation to communicate.” When a user iscontacted by a prospect and buys time with an “I need more time torespond” reply, prospects who receive such a reply may contact the useragain after a certain period of time, at which point if the user werenot to respond to the prospect in a timely manner, it would countadversely against the user's responsiveness rating. When a user has morethan a set number of “I need more time to respond” replies outstanding,the user's ability to contact other prospects may be placed on holduntil the user attends to the outstanding and overdue messages.

The system-implemented method includes a matchmaking web site or system,in which the users enter information about them and their partnerpreferences and also involve other individuals—such as a relative,friend, or acquaintance—in his or her search for a partner.Additionally, the system-implemented method includes a separate butintegrated networking web site or system at which the users may createand expand their social graphs by connecting online with the people intheir lives. The integration between the matchmaking site and thenetworking site enables users of the matchmaking site (includingindividual users and their families) to do due diligence on prospectivematches with the help of the networking site. In one implementation ofthe system, the due diligence may take the form of assessing someone'spersonal and professional background and network of relationships. Usingthe integrated networking site, the two users of the matchmaking sitemay discover connections such as peers, friends, or acquaintances theymay have in common.

The foregoing objects relating to the involving of select others in auser's search process for a partner; the integration of the matchmakingand networking sites or systems; and the verification of a prospect'sbackground are explained hereunder with reference to an implementationof the method. At the networking site, users establish and expand theirfamily and personal networks by creating a “PeopleTree” and connectingwith trusted relatives, neighbors, family friends, teachers, doctors,and other people in their lives. The PeopleTree consists of a list andmini-profiles of the connected people and also, potentially, links tofuller profiles of the people, if they are also on the networking siteand consent to such linking Once the user registers an account at thematchmaking site, he or she automatically establishes an account at thenetworking site. A user may populate his or her PeopleTree eitherdirectly at the networking site or within the matchmaking site, whilecreating a profile, as shown in FIG. 16. Then a user may indicate whoelse from within their PeopleTree is involved in their search for apartner. This may be done at the matchmaking site profile creation stageas shown in FIG. 17, or on a case-by-case basis, from within a potentialmatch's profile page, as shown in FIG. 18. Each individual so designatedas being part of the so-called “MyPeople” team would then receive ane-mail inviting him/her either to create a profile on the networkingsite (if they do not have one there already); to accept the user'sinvitation to be part of his/her MyPeople team at the matchmaking site;and to port select (summary) information from his/her networking siteprofile to the user's profile page at the matchmaking site. That is,each of the MyPeople thumbnail sketches at a user's matchmaking siteprofile (see, e.g., the left column in FIG. 7) may be linked to therespective MyPeople members' networking site profile summaries. Thisselect set of MyPeople (up to, say, five) would then get privileges toreview and rate the user's potential matches, through their ownnetworking site accounts which interface with the user's account and ata potential match's profile on the matchmaking site. Such reviews,ratings, and messages may remain private to the MyPeople team. TheMyPeople messages functionality is illustrated in FIG. 19.

The system includes multiple individuals and “group” logins associatedwith a user profile on the matchmaking site, with appropriateread/review/rate/communicate privileges for the MyPeople members set bythe matchmaking site user's designated profile manager.

A user may set up a “prospect ratings” sheet corresponding to his or herpartner preferences and provide his or her MyPeople team members withthe option of submitting their opinions on or ratings of the prospects.A matchmaking site user's MyPeople team may have privileges that includeforwarding a profile to someone; adding searched profiles to the user'sshortlist, for his/her consideration; rating shortlisted profiles orprospects; and even initiating communications or interactions with aprospect at the site, on behalf of the user. MyPeople members may alsoinsert testimonials or provide references to the user. The user andhis/her “people” would have the option of later changing the stage,nature, and extent of such MyPeople involvement in the search processfor a partner.

The method facilitates meetings between two users (with or withouteither's family members being involved) as illustrated in FIG. 20, FIG.21, and FIG. 22, and includes exchanging of meeting type/venuepreferences; meeting protocol or customs; and the collecting ofpost-meeting feedback on the other user.

The method also facilitates online interactions between users in amanner that mimics users' entering a room and knowing, readily, withwhom they have things in common. In an implementation of the method,when a user enters such a chat or discussion room online, the systemwould flag those other users who share, say, the user's socio-culturalor socio-economic background, values, ideals, lifestyle choices,interests, aspirations, personality traits, or even prevailing mood, orthose users who may be potential matches, and, if so desired, signal tothe concerned users that another user of interest is in the “vicinity,”so as to facilitate the striking up of conversation.

1. A system-implemented method of determining compatibility andfacilitating matching between users of the method, comprising thefollowing: a matchmaking web site; registration of users; creation of auser profile by registered users; enabling users to provide theirpartner preferences; collating and processing of information, within oneor more databases, relating to user profiles and users' partnerpreferences; assigning of weights to users' partner preferences;matching of users with other, potentially compatible users or prospects;determining degree of match between the matched users; notifying usersof other users with whom they may be compatible; displaying users'profiles to their potential matches; facilitating multiple means andmultiple stages of communication and interaction between users;assigning users a responsiveness rating that is calculated based on howresponsive they are to other users on the site; a user profile privacycontrol mechanism that enables users to control which prospects get toview their profile particulars and at what stage in a user'sinteractions with a prospect; charging users a fee in real or virtualcurrency to permit them to communicate or interact with other users;allowing users to earn redeemable credits, virtual currencies, or pointsfor activities or specific actions undertaken on the site; enabling auser to involve other individuals in the search for a partner, withappropriate user privileges set by the user's designated profilemanager; enabling multiple individuals and “group” logins to beassociated with a user profile; archiving the progression of users'interactions with and potential relationship stories involving otherusers; and a social networking web site.
 2. A system-implemented methodas claimed in claim 1, wherein the user registration may be restrictedand is either by invitation only or enabled only for credentialed users.3. A system-implemented method as claimed in claim 2, wherein theverification of a user's credentials may be achieved by means of agateway providing access to verified members.
 4. A system-implementedmethod as claimed in claim 1, wherein the categorization and matching ofusers is based on criteria that include the users' respective lifestagesand indicated time frames for marriage, wherein the time frames may besimilar or overlapping.
 5. A system-implemented method as claimed inclaim 4, wherein the life stages and time frames for marriage may beuser-customizable.
 6. A system-implemented method as claimed in claim 1,wherein the registered users may customize the profile particulars theywish to see displayed as part of a prospect's profile summary.
 7. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the systemenables the collection and display of information relating to thevariation of a user's profile characteristics over time.
 8. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the systemenables a user's partner preferences to be updated automaticallyfollowing an updating of information about the user.
 9. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the systemenables a user to indicate their partner preferences in absolute termsand/or in relative terms.
 10. A system-implemented method as claimed inclaim 1, wherein the method incorporates Boolean logic to allow peopleto make trade-offs in their partner preferences.
 11. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the user'spartner preferences, are collected and processed in a manner thatcaptures how important a potential criterion is relative to another andalso, within a potential criterion, how preferable some possiblepreferences, values, or ranges of values are relative to other possiblepreferences, values, or ranges of values.
 12. A system-implementedmethod as claimed in claim 1, wherein the weights may be assigneddefault values by the system and/or may be user customizable.
 13. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 12, wherein the weightsmay derive either wholly from user-specified weights or partly fromuser-specified weights; empirical data; hypotheses on the relativeimportance of potential criteria and the variation of people's partnerpreferences within each possible criterion; input from people known tothe user; user behavior, including a user's browsing history on thesite; and/or user interactions history, including feedback andinformation on why users approved, disapproved, accepted, rejected, wereinterested in or uninterested in previous prospects.
 14. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the profileprivacy control mechanism may be automated, adjusted, or re-adjusted bya user.
 15. A system-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, whereinthe profile privacy control mechanism allows for a user to request, of aprospect, the revealing of profile particulars.
 16. A system-implementedmethod as claimed in claim 1, wherein how much a user is charged tocommunicate or interact with other users is a function of the degree ofmatch between the two users.
 17. A system-implemented method as claimedin claim 1, wherein a user may specify additional monies, in anyappropriate unit of real or virtual currency, that a prospect would haveto pay to communicate or interact with the user.
 18. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the profiledisplay particulars includes the charges payable in real or virtualcurrency to communicate or interact with the prospect.
 19. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein if a user'sresponsiveness rating falls below a threshold, then the user's abilityto communicate or interact with prospects may be placed on hold.
 20. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the user andany of the individuals involved in the user's search may have the optionof changing the stage, nature, and extent of such involvement.
 21. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein a matchmakingsite user's group members may have privileges that include offeringtestimonials for inclusion in a user's profile; serving as references toa user; forwarding a profile to another user or potential user; addingsearched profiles to a user's shortlist, for his/her consideration;reading, reviewing and rating user profiles; and interacting with aprospect at the site.
 22. A system-implemented method as claimed inclaim 21, wherein a user group's reviews, ratings, and messagespertaining to a prospect's profile may remain private to the groupconcerned and specific to that prospect's profile.
 23. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the methodfacilitates meetings between two users, with or without either user'sgroup members being involved, and includes exchanging of relevantinformation.
 24. A system-implemented method as claimed in claim 1,wherein the method also facilitates the coming together of potentiallycompatible users for online interactions that include instant messagingand near-real-time communications or interactions.
 25. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein users areprovided with the means to collate prospects' contact information andpertinent particulars into a repository or database.
 26. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 1, wherein the system mayextract and present to a pair of users their profile particulars,interaction history, activity stream, and/or any other relevant orinteresting information.
 27. A system-implemented method as claimed inclaim 1, wherein in the matchmaking web site the users enter profileinformation and indicate partner preferences, and in the networking website the users create and expand their social graphs by connectingonline with other people.
 28. A system-implemented method as claimed inclaim 27, wherein a user may populate his or her network either directlyat the networking site or from within the matchmaking site.
 29. Asystem-implemented method as claimed in claim 27, wherein a user mayport select information from his or her networking site profile to hisor her profile at the matchmaking site.
 30. A system-implemented methodas claimed in claim 27, wherein a group member's profile at a user'smatchmaking site profile may be linked to the group member's networkingsite profile.
 31. A system-implemented method as claimed in claim 1,wherein users of the matchmaking site may discover, using the networkingsite, connections they may have in common; verify prospects' identitiesand backgrounds; and/or better gauge compatibility using additionalpotential information gathered from the networking site.